Those Who Hide What They Are

DISGUISES. I was thinking about this theme for a post and I was not sure exactly which direction to go in. So, I thought I would think a little bit about internet security.

When I checked the definition of disguise – it was along the following lines:

“to alter one’s appearance or conceal one’s identity”

incognitoI was thinking about how important anonymity has been to me while I have been blogging on WordPress. I have written about lots of people and events in my personal life. But I do all sorts to maintain my privacy. I change names. I am very obscure about locations. There are all sorts of things I would never share on my blog for security reasons.

In addition, I only feel comfortable talking about my personal life, within the privacy that being incognito brings. That is important to me, and I also seek to protect Jack’s identity.

In a way, I conceal my identity with a disguise. I do so with a clean conscience. I am very security conscious. I have absolutely no intention to mislead of deceive others for sinister reasons.

But that made me think of everything I have read about internet security. There are people who disguise who they are for malicious, sinister reasons. I think that most bloggers are sensible and have that sense of caution with regards to personal information. But I am very conscious that there are some very young bloggers and others who perhaps are a little too trusting.

incognitoI don’t to be gloomy here, or frighten anyone, but I would appeal to anyone blogging and sharing information from their personal life to be careful! Be cautious! There are people, perhaps bloggers, who are disguising themselves, not for security reasons, but for sinister reasons.

It is so easy to find yourself drawn to bloggers who are friendly. Most of that interaction is fine. But please please be careful. The internet can be like a big city. There are lots of people, most of them just enjoying themselves. But others with ill intent. And those who do have sinister motives are usually very very clever at disguising themselves. They might be men pretending to be teenage girls. Or people pretending to be all sorts of things they are not, in order to get your attention and try to win your trust.

caution.pngSomeone might have a sad story and be asking you for money to help them with their problems. They might ask you for personal photographs, or lots of personal questions. They might say they are lonely and that they feel especially drawn to you, that you seem very special.

In fact…maybe I am a tad suspicious, but any stranger who starts telling me I am “special” or giving me an unreasonable amount of flattery – my alarm sensors immediately trigger.

careful3.jpgDisguises are not always bad in themselves. People wear disguises for fun like at fancy dress parties. They wear disguises to remain incognito to protect their privacy. They may seek to maintain their anonymity because they are security conscious. Here on WordPress there are many bloggers who prefer to remain anonymous for all sorts of reasons. They may want to express their creativity or their feelings without others from their “real life” identifying them.

But the worst disguises are those worn by those who pretend to be something they are not in order to deceive, degrade and damage. Some disguises are worn by those with very harmful sinister motives. Some cleverly hide what they are, presenting themselves as something entirely innocent, when the reality is, they are seeking an opportunity to take advantage of someone trusting and vulnerable.

There are some lovely bloggers out there. They are usually very sensible and cautious themselves and are unlikely to ever compromise your security. But please remember that there are some internet users who are basically predators.

Enjoy blogging – but be cautious. Be safe! Remember there are some out there who are very clever at disguising their true motives.

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This post was my response to the writing prompt from Sarah Elizabeth Moore

Writing Prompt #42

6 thoughts on “Those Who Hide What They Are

  1. This definitely inspires me to write something. It also gives me something to think about. Weighing pros and cons for/against does take a lot of time and energy; but in the name of privacy and safety, it might be more sensible. Excuse the ambiguity!

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    1. It is an interesting subject isn’t. I think there are so many features of the internet we can enjoy, but we all need to remember that the internet is a route through which many with sinister motives can do great harm. It’s being safety/security conscious that hopefully will prevent anyone being caught out.

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    1. That would be very sad!
      I worry about some who are younger and less experienced (although age doesn’t necessarily indicate someone’s level of savviness).
      I have been blogging for around eighteen months, and in all that time there have been a couple of people who concerned me by their creepy comments.
      But I did notice that some of my older posts were being viewed a lot, and when I looked at them one had a photo of me (the picture was obscure and you couldn’t see my face, but you could see the rest of me. I decided to delete picture not the post because I didn’t see why anyone needed to see what my body looks like. And there were some other posts which I decided to edit to make them a bit more obscure.
      I also “tested” a blogger who was becoming a bit creepy by dropping in a a password protected post with a word I thought would register with them. It obviously got their attention, and in response I received a creepy comment, which just convinced me I need to be careful with that blogger.

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