Sit Down Next To Me

seatedJim Adams, aka Newepicauthor, the creator of A Unique Title For Me, is hosting SONG-LYRIC-SUNDAY and this week he has chosen the theme: LEAN/SIT/STAND

Yet again, Jim has chosen a fabulous theme, one for which there are a long long list of songs…fantastic songs. I have already featured one of the most special songs in my life. But I have been thinking about a second song all day, wondering if anyone else would choose it. There is another blogger who seems to have a very similar taste in music to me, and I reckoned this would be the song he would choose, so I told myself to wait and see. But he has featured something else.

However, both wonderful Willow and amazing Angie Trafford did feature the second song I found was on my mind all week. So, I am not going to add this to the SONG-LYRIC-SUNDAY parade on Jim’s post. But for anyone who does not yet head straight to Jim’s site each Sunday to check out the amazing mix of songs that are featured, I am going to publish this post anyway, as it includes a little trip down memory lane!

i was shyI wanted to feature this song for two reasons. Firstly because I have my own personal memory in connection with it. It was the very first “disco” I went to as a little girl. I was so nervous. I hardly knew any of the other kids. I stood near the back in the dark dancing. But I remember this song being played. I don’t think I had ever heard it before. But I remember that during the chorus words of “Sit down, sit, down, sit down” etc, everyone in the room sat down on the floor. Then we stand up again to bop through the verse. Then the chorus came and we all sat down on the floor again! At such a young age…I thought it was great fun!

all along.jpgMy second reason for wanting to feature it is simply that this is a song that everybody seems to love. As I grew older the lyrics became more meaningful and moving. I have been at so many parties and live shows where it was covered, and have chanted along with a huge group of people who love love love this song. I love it when a song starts and everyone cheers because it’s such a big favourite. This song is one of those HALL OF FAME tracks that everyone knows the words to, well at least, it is in England. But I read that when it was first released, it reached Number 77 in the charts. So after a bit of tinkering, it was re-released a couple of years later and became a huge hit.

jam.jpgThe song is of course “Sit Down”, from a great band named James. If you search online you will find many other brilliant versions of this song. I love to hear it covered by choirs and orchestras. It has been used for many a charity fundraiser, including a memorable effort with comedian Peter Kay. There is something very emotive and endearing about the lyrics.

But there may be a reason to believe that it is also known elsewhere. I read that it was used for the promo for Game Of Thrones. So I have attacked the promo I found online to the end of the post so that you can relive the show, if you are a GOT enthusiast.

I’ll sing myself to sleep
A song from the darkest hour
Secrets I can’t keep
Inside of the day
Swing from high to deep
Extremes of sweet and sour
Hope that God exists
I hope I pray

Drawn by the undertow
My life is out of control
I believe this wave will bear my weight
So let it flow

Oh sit down
Sit down next to me
Sit down, down, down, down, down
In sympathy

Now I’m relieved to hear
That you’ve been to some far out places
It’s hard to carry on
When you feel all alone
Now I’ve swung back down again
It’s worse than it was before
If I hadn’t seen such riches
I could live with being poor

Oh sit down
Sit down next to me
Sit down, down, down, down, down
In sympathy

Those who feel the breath of sadness
Sit down next to me
Those who find they’re touched by madness
Sit down next to me
Those who find themselves ridiculous
Sit down next to me
Love, in fear, in hate, in tears

Down
Down

Oh sit down
Sit down next to me
Sit down, down, down, down, down
In sympathy

Oh sit down
Sit down next to me
Sit down, down, down, down, down
In sympathy

Down

Written By: Jim Glennie, Larry Gott, Tim Booth and Gavan Whelan

Game of Thrones video:

Love And Laughter Light Up Our Lives

robin and annie0CRUSHED CARAMEL (LEARNER AT LOVE) is a site where you will find love mentioned frequently. Love of all types! Love of family, friends, work, nature, food, music…and the romantic love that certainly makes life a drama, often a comedy and occasionally a  tragedy!

So on this lovely sunny autumnal Sunday, I am going to respond to Rory’s Romcom tag and bring a splash of romance to the rest of the afternoon. Love and laughter make for a delightful movie plot. And Rory has given me the chance to think of some of my favourite movie moments!

I am delighted to have been tagged to take part in a SCENE CUTS! Challenge by Rory himself, the creator of  A Guy Called Bloke, and also the creator of the SCENE CUTS! Challenge. You can see his original post below:

https://aguycalledbloke.blog/2019/10/20/scene-cuts-series-1-game-3-romcom/

Guidelines: Scene Cuts!

Thank the Selector – THANK YOU RORY!

Select three film clips from the Movies Genre of the Day

Select 3 readers to take part in Scene Cuts

Movie Genre Today: “Romcom”

The first clip I am featuring is from one of the most incredible romantic comedies I have ever seen. Romantic – yes! Comedy – yes! Poignant and moving and inspirational and tear-jerking – incredibly so!

If you have not seen this film, “LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL”, where have you been? With the setting being the build up to the Second World War and the horrors of the concentration camps and the Holocaust, a beautiful love story is told in a delightful way. This movie does everything for me…I am laughing, smiling, crying, sobbing, cheering throughout it. What a story! What a movie!

If you watched the clip and it didn’t make complete sense, watch the whole movie – please do! But I will explain a few things for you. Dora is engaged to a man who thinks only of the advancement of his own career. So he is courting popularity and favour with the wealthy and influential of the Italian glitariati. Of course, at that time in history Italy was friendly with Hitler’s Nazi party. Dora’s engagement party is turning  into a political display.

But some time before the engagement party, Dora has met Guido, an Italian Jew, who has made a big impression on her. He works for his Uncle as a waiter, and on this occasion he is serving at Dora’s engagement party. The horse you see in this clip – well, at the start of the scene, the horse (which belongs to his Jewish Uncle) has been graffitied with racist taunts, just in case you were wondering why the horse is green and has symbols painted on it. The first part of the movie which tells the story of how they fall in love, gives you hints of the challenges that they will face. For the second part of the movie, you need a box of tissues with you and chocolate, lots of chocolate!

This movie tells a very moving love story. It shows how love moves a man to do everything in his power to protect his family from the horrors around them. He tries go on caring for them in every way he can…and to help them be sure that truly, LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.

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As for my second choice…I have not actually seen this movie in full – too much swearing for me! My friends have likened me to Bridget Jones. Those who know me best say I am a combination of Bridget Jones and Maria Von Trapp. I think it would be fairer to sat, I am aiming, aspiring to be like Maria Von Trapp, but sometimes things go wrong and somehow my efforts turn out to be more Bridget Jones than Maria Von Trapp. From the clips I have seen, I can see why my friends tease me about reminding them of Bridget.

As someone who seems to end up getting herself in all sorts of trouble, in style, yet has nothing but loving motives and is full of sunshine…I can see why my life can be at times entertaining to my friends! Here are a couple of clips that friends have used to tease moi – Bridget Von Trapp is what my friends call me.

Believe me…I am always concerned that there is some bizarre drama waiting around the corner for me…and it is something I worry could cause twists and turns in my relationships. Does Jack have any idea what he is letting himself in for?

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Well my last choice of clip is the ending (so if you have not seen the movie “YOU’VE GOT MAIL” do not watch this as it might spoil the film for you!) of a movie I could happily watch over and over despite having seen it twenty times or so!

This is not so much a comedy moment…nope, we are going to end this challenge on a romantic note. Because after misunderstandings, miscommunications and misinterpretations – sometimes, wonderfully, beautifully, miraculously…love wins the day!

And how wonderful it is when that happens! I am in a state of amazement at the twist in my own romantic story. Jack! Jack, who I thought despised me…it turns out I was very very wrong about him! And I am so glad!

I am so glad romantic love exists! So glad romantic comedies exist! Thank you for all the laughs, the smiles, the tears! They have made us daydream about romance, made us at times a little crazy, at times a little creepy, at times a little rash and impetuous. But nonetheless, whether we are in or out of love…it is great to curl up on the sofa, and watch a good old romcom – especially on cold wintery weekends!

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And the three bloggers I am nominating to take part in Rory’s SCENE CUTS! Challenge are:

Just As Long As You Stand By Me

Jim Adams, aka Newepicauthor, the creator of A Unique Title For Me, is hosting SONG-LYRIC-SUNDAY and this week he has chosen the theme: LEAN/SIT/STAND

stand by meUh-oh…as soon as I saw this theme, I knew I was going to find it really hard to choose which song to feature, when so many great songs came to mind.

However, there is one song that has to be at the very top of my list. In fact if Jack thought I had picked any other song for today, I might be in trouble! This special song is “Stand By Me” by the wonderful Ben E. King.

He and I have “a song”! One night we danced together (this was before the estrangement took root). My friend Suzie said that everyone stopped to watch us. People had been talking about us for some time. All I remember is seeing him. It is a memory which confused me for a long time afterwards.

robins and annie handsSo…one of the songs on his sixties playlist is that same song. Within the past couple of weeks, he played that playlist, and I think around the third tune was “our song” … easily distinguishable from the first few seconds. I gazed into Jack’s eyes and he smiled. We do a lot of playing with each other’s hands at the moment. Anyway, I asked him if he remembered.

performing.pngHe thought he was talking about when he sang it live a few months after that night when we danced. I don’t think he realized that by then, I was regularly being told by some people that Jack couldn’t stand me and wished we were not flatmates. He was blissfully unaware that I was tormented when he was singing that song. He thought I would understand why he had chosen that song.

Anyway…I am determined nobody is going to ruin things between us this time. It is “our song” (perhaps lots of other couples would say the same) and when I hear it I think of him. I love Jack. I believe that I always did, even when I thought he hated me. I intend to stand by him, come what may.

I find it hard to listen to a cover of “Stand By Me”…my feelings are that nobody should touch it. Ben E. King is the the King of this song. No covers needed – ever!

When the night has come
And the land is dark
And the moon is the only light we’ll see
No, I won’t be afraid
Oh, I won’t be afraid
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me

So darlin’, darlin’
Stand by me, oh, stand by me
Oh, stand, stand by me
Stand by me

If the sky that we look upon
Should tumble and fall
Or the mountain should crumble to the sea
I won’t cry, I won’t cry
No, I won’t shed a tear
Just as long as you stand
Stand by me

And darlin’, darlin’
Stand by me, oh, stand by me
Oh, stand now, stand by me
Stand by me

Darlin’, darlin’
Stand by me, oh, stand by me
Oh, stand now, stand by me
Stand by me
Whenever you’re in trouble, won’t you stand by me?
Oh, stand by me
Won’t you stand now?
Oh, stand, stand by me

Written By: Ben E King, Jerry Leiber and Mike Stoller